NEW – Soul Message Sundays!



I have some great news!  I have just implemented something new and exciting – Soul Message Sundays!

If you are on my official newsletter list (not this blog), you will receive a weekly Soul Message every Sunday.  In this email, I will have drawn an oracle card or cards from a specific deck and share with you the message for that week.

It is a great way to start your week off with soul guidance and inspiration!

The link to the first Soul Message Sunday email is below.  I want you to get a taste of what to expect each week. Let me know in the comments box below if this is something that serves you.

Soul Message Sunday Email

And not only that, you can also order your own PERSONAL Soul Message Reading now.  Look at the main menu above and you will see a link to Soul Message Readings.  Click on that link in the main menu and it will take you to the details page to learn more.

So CLICK HERE to join my phenomenal newsletter and receive these weekly Soul Message Sunday Oracle readings!

Have a blessed & creative week!

Always in love,


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4 Things That Are Blocking Your DESIRES from Manifesting

Hello Sweet!

Do you love the changing of seasons?

I love the Fall!  In fact, I love the transition seasons of both Fall and Spring.  Fall is a time of movement to wrap up the old, shed the proverbial leaves of your old life to invite in the new that wants to burst forth in Springtime.  You feel this movement in the cool winds that begin to blow as they shake the dead leaves from the trees. Nature can tell us so much about how to live our lives if we would only pause for a moment to take note.

In the years I have been working with clients, I continue to see common patterns over and over again that stop them from creating the DESIRES they want in life.  In fact, I will bet that the 4 things I am going to talk about today have stopped you from moving forward with something in your life that you have desired to manifest.

So here they are…

The 4 COMMON Blocks to Manifesting Your Desires are:

  1. FEAR
  2. Lack of TRUST in Your Own KNOWING
  3. Creativity Blocks
  4. Limiting Beliefs About Money

Do any of these resonate for you?

What if you could clear out the FEAR that stops you from moving forward with that one thing you are really desiring to manifest?  Wouldn’t it be nice to know the origin of that FEAR so that it could be rooted out for good?

And what about TRUSTING YOUR INTUITION…are you good at that?  When you get a hit about something, do you follow through or question it over and over and doubt yourself?  Wouldn’t it be nice to just KNOW and TRUST and move forward with the inspiration?

Then there’s the CREATIVITY BLOCKS where you just don’t seem to have any inspired ideas or motivation to move forward with your million dollar creative idea, business or book.  Right?  Wouldn’t it be nice to open up your creative flow once again and ride that wave of creative bliss and freedom?

But, then there’s the MONEY PROBLEM. Ugh!  You believe you can’t do something because you don’t have the money.  How many times a day does that limiting thought enter your head? Wouldn’t it be nice to really know deep in your bones that money has NOTHING to do with you moving forward?  Wouldn’t you like to remove that pesky belief from your system for good?

If you answered yes to any or all of the above, then I highly encourage you to consider my 8 Week Transformational Intensive.  In these 8 weeks starting end of October we will address all of the above blocks to get you ready for 2016.  If you wait until January 1st to do something about it, sorry to tell you, it will be too late.  To have a great year, you have to start the momentum NOW moving into 2016 so that you have a serious running start in 2016.  Use the energy of this FALL to shake off the old blocks that have kept you from moving forward.

Click here to learn more

And if you are still not sure, contact me by email at thespiritualintuitive (at) and let’s set up a call to answer your questions and see if this is a fit for you.

I only have 7 spots left so ACT NOW to receive the BONUSES!  Time to clear these blocks BEFORE 2016 gets here.  Why go through another year not letting yourself have what you desire when you can clear the blocks that are stopping you right now!

Much love,

Linda Galvan

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Crocheting and Female Orgasm

Hell-“O” to you!

I am laughing as I write this.  Since middle school, I have always needed a title first before writing anything.  I know that there is a camp out there that says, ‘just write it and the title will reveal itself.’  I am sure that is true. However, that does not work for me.  I have to start with a catchy title that excites me first before I can get excited about writing about it.


Can you not feel the curiosity growing and your mind going, “huh?”  Doesn’t it trigger this ‘need to know’ how these two seemingly unrelated topics are connected?

I can hear all of you saying, “YES!” quite loudly and telling me to get on with it already.  Or you might be even wondering why the heck I am even writing about this.  I promise it has a point.  Read on…

When I learn something new that makes me pause and contemplate, I just HAVE TO SHARE IT!  I recently came across a recording by Alison Armstrong, the author and creator of The Queen’s Code.  She was sharing her wisdom about how men and women are very different and how each gender tends to think that the other gender is like them when in fact this is not true at all and supported by research.  All of the info was fascinating and only supported what I already knew until she came to the topic of ‘oxytocin.’

Oxytocin is a powerful hormone secreted by the pituitary gland in the brain and is sometimes called the “bonding” or “cuddle” hormone. This hormone is responsible for “pair bonding” in mammals – which includes humans.  It is secreted when we hug or kiss someone we love, when a mother breast feeds, during sex, and when a woman is giving birth.

The modern lifestyle of the typical Western woman only serves to lower our oxytocin levels on a regular basis.  We over-give, we are rushed, frantic, dealing with long ‘to-do’ lists at work and home, have too much on our plate because we say ‘yes’ to everything and everyone, dealing with the kids, balancing the budget, building or running a business, and the list goes on (doesn’t it girlfriends?).  Every day stress in a typical woman’s life lowers her oxytocin.

Alison went on to share that when women are low in oxytocin, it is difficult for them to reach orgasm.  This is an issue for a whopping 80% of women!  Statistically speaking, if you are reading this then you know what I am talking about.  Appropriate levels of oxytocin are also responsible for experiencing a feeling of ‘well-being.’

Low oxytocin levels in women are just not good news for anyone and that includes men.  When women are depleted in this way and their spouse wants sex research has shown that women feel a sense of actual dread because subconsciously they know that their oxytocin bank is low and having sex will only lower it more.  In fact, if a woman forces herself to have sex even when she is depleted, she will feel very depressed afterwards.

Ladies, can any of you relate?

This does not happen in men so it can be confusing to the man when the woman he loves who he wants to make love to has this look of dread on her face when he approaches or is depressed afterwards.  Men can feel deeply rejected and not understand what’s going on with their woman.  I am sure that does wonders for intimacy in a relationship or marriage and probably contributes to infidelity.

I can hear the big question…’what can we as women do (or not do) to raise our oxytocin levels?’

Alison mentioned several things such as having ample time alone to rest and regenerate, slowing down by avoiding over-committing, shopping (that explains the shopaholic syndrome)and doing rhythmic things with your hands!  Drawing, painting, coloring and crocheting are some examples.  In fact, research has shown that women who engage in such repetitive creative endeavors are increasing their oxytocin levels.  The repetitive nature of such things as crochet relax the mind and body which increases oxytocin.  In fact, such repetitive behaviors stimulate a meditative state which leads to feelings of well being.  Higher oxytocin levels is directly related to a higher likelihood of a woman having an orgasm along with all the other good things that come along with that.

And this is how crocheting and female orgasm are related.  Ta-da!

But wait!  Why am I even writing about this?

Well, it has come to my attention, after years of working with women who are “stuck” somewhere in their lives, that we do not spend enough time feeding our creative selves.  The creation energy is actually sexual energy.  And sexual energy is that powerful inspirational and generative force that helps move us forward in our lives.  If we have shut that powerful creative energy down because our lives have become ‘too busy’, we are only compounding our problems and contributing to our stuckness.

Now, don’t get confused with thinking that just “having more sex” will solve the problem.  In many cases, that can lead to further depletion as mentioned above.

The key point to take from all this is to evaluate your creative life right now.  Do you even have one?  Do you make time for creative projects?  Have you continued to make excuses for not getting back into creative things you enjoy because you ‘don’t have the time’?

If so, it’s time to re-commit to your creative self.  By doing so, you are actually helping yourself to get ‘unstuck’ (and have more orgasms).  It doesn’t matter in what area of life you are stuck. I can guarantee you that if we had a session around how you are stuck, it would have a lot to do with not allowing your creative self room to breath, be and express.  As women, this is CRITICAL to OUR WELL-BEING!

Or course, I am not attempting to simplify the complexity of a woman’s stuck situation.  I was there once for 11 years and it was not pretty.  What I am saying is that there are simple steps you can take right now to begin the process of getting unstuck.  Things as simple as buying some yarn and a crochet needle and watching a tutorial on Youtube (there are great ones, btw)


Joining my ART AS MEDITATION series beginning in August 2015.  Our first experience will be in making “Soul Medicine Malas.”  Malas are prayer beads with 108 beads.  We will learn how to professionally knot (a repetitive hand motion) our own malas.  In addition, I will introduce how through engaging in creative art forms, you can open to higher meditative states and alignment with Spirit which creates an expansive energy that then opens you to your higher intuitive abilities.  This is a multi-layered series that will have far reaching benefits beyond just learning how to make a mala.  So don’t miss it! Spaces will be quite limited.

If you are interested in this series and you are not on my private and oh-so fabulous email list, CLICK HERE to be added and you will receive the announcement when the date and location is set. If enough out-of-towners are interested, I will even add a Google Hang Outs on Air Live Video feed.  You will also receive other announcements about the other fabulous things I am offering including free audios, call series, and so forth.

I would love to hear from you so please leave me some feedback!  It would be nice to know if anyone is even reading this stuff I am having so much fun writing.  If not, no worries, as I play well with myself regardless!  HA!

Enjoy cr’O’cheting!

Always in love,

Linda Galvan – Vibrational Alchemist + Soul Guide + Spiritual Intuitive

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Life is Self-Correcting


Apologies that I went dark on you concerning blogging.  I was just walking along minding my own business when life happened!  Can you believe it?  The audacity!

It takes a brave heart to live this earth life because life does happen.  Life happens whether we are ready for it or not.  When I refer to “life,” I am not referring to the biological aspects.  When I speak of life, I am speaking of the every day realities we encounter.  Stress in our jobs, family and relationships; illness and maintaining health; dark nights of the soul; accidents; death and loss of loved ones; financial struggles; legal issues; friendship issues; addictions and so on.

However, here is the SAVING GRACE!

Did you know that LIFE IS SELF-CORRECTING.  Did you actually think that God/Source/”The Big Man Upstairs” was going to leave us to our own devices? HA! We’d be long gone by now and you know it!  We would have survived maybe a second or so before we ate something that killed us or got eaten by something…or worse.

I find it kinda hilarious that we actually believe we are in control of life.  HA! HA! HA!

News flash!

Your life is not your own.  If it was, you would have already really screwed it up so bad to the point of no return ever!  And you probably would not even be reading this blog because you would be dead or worse.  (Yes, there is worse than dead).

And for those of you who really think you have already screwed up your life beyond the point of no return, you haven’t!  If you are reading this blog, you have NOT screwed up your life beyond the point of no return.  It just can’t happen and I will tell you why.  Read on.

This may all sound hopeless or morbid to you that you do not truly control life when in fact you should be celebrating this little known Truth.  Here it is….wait for it…wait for it…



So stop wasting your time trying to screw things up because like a street sweeper, life cleans up the messes.  Give life enough time and everything gets right back on track after a big fiasco.  Just think about it. Let’s start with natural disasters like the floods in Texas or the earthquakes in Nepal or the hurricanes off the coasts of North America.  Yes, nature left a mess and life was really screwed up for a bit, but slowly things start moving right back into balance again.  People pick up the pieces of the old life and create a new one.  Life goes on.  Life is self-correcting.  This is true of relationships, jobs, health challenges and so forth.

Notice that I did NOT say that life goes “back to the way it was.”  Life keeps moving forward and never goes “back” but it does self-correct.  If we let go of the need for things to be “back the way they were” then we have a much easier time moving forward and letting life create something new and improved.  It may look different than before but the immediate mess goes away in time.

Nothing ever stays the same.

This too shall pass.

Life goes on.

I feel it important to remember this truth when we are in the middle of life’s screw ups and messes, when we are caught off guard as “life happens.”  In those moments we tend to think that it’s permanent and nothing will change.

Like watching a cloud, life will change, move and dissolve in its own timing.

The key to experiencing life with more ease even in the messy and screwed up moments is to REMAIN PRESENT  and have FAITH that life is self-correcting and things will balance out sooner or later.  Even if you do feel or believe you screwed it up royally, life corrects itself over time if you let it.  The challenge with most humans is that we stick our mucky hands in it and create more of a mess than was there to begin with.

My loving suggestion to you is to just LEAVE IT ALONE and STOP MESSING WITH IT!  If you keep picking on a scab, you will re-infect the wound.  Same with life.  Stop picking on the scabs of life (now that’s a great blog title)!  Give them time to heal/self-correct.

There are fail safes built in to life.  God planned it that way in HER DIVINE WISDOM.  Thank GODDESS!

So, if you are “picking on your scabs of life” and in need of some compassionate and clear soul guidance on how to let life BE, contact me (512-576-5297) for a session.  I would love to help you “stop picking on it.”

If your birthday is in the month of June, you can receive a 1 hour session for only $150 (half off my regular rate).  You can also receive a Remote Session for $150.  Check out my services tab in the menu above to learn more.

Always in Love,

Linda Galvan

Vibrational Alchemist + Soul Guide + Spiritual Intuitive

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I had an interesting visual that came to me last night.  I was thinking about my sessions with clients and how clients feel so much lighter after a session with me.  Heavy things seem to clear up or they have a more peaceful sense of what to do next.  It feels like magic actually – even to me!  I never know when I begin a session what the outcome will be, but I do expect magic to happen….and it always does!

The visual I had was seeing how with almost a snap of our fingers, we can shift out of a dark space when given a new perspective or understanding of our situation.  I saw myself snapping my fingers and fairy dust spilled out over the client and then a smile appeared on their face.  It was a magical visual and it made me smile.

I have known that we all have this magical ability to shift our perspective, access our deepest knowing, feel into the truth of something, question our “victim” story, and make new choices that do serve us (and others).  This visual served to remind me of the magic that we all are.

Let’s do some clearing on this.  It’s simple, just read the energetic clearing question below and do what it says.

What magic are you denying that you are that if you stopped denying it your life would change for the better?  Anything that doesn’t allow you to be the magical being that you truly are, are you willing to delete and uncreate those blocks?  If so, say “YES” and take a deep breath.  

Keep asking yourself this question about 10 times deleting and uncreating the blocks.  You don’t need to necessarily know what the blocks are, you just need to say “yes” and breath the blocks out.  You might come into some awarenesses as you do this clearing exercise or you might not.  Regardless, it works!  Over time, as you continue to use this energetic clearing question, you will begin to notice how you can shift your perspective about something and, like magic, things shift in a good way!  By asking this energetic question, you create movement within your energy field.  That’s a good thing as it begins to move out stuck energy such as limiting beliefs, attitudes and actions or non-actions that keep you stuck in a heavy place.

Let your magical self out!  You are a magical being of light!  PLAY with the magic that you are!  Snap your fingers and expect a magical solution to show up.  Expectation, intention and feeling what you want are part of that magical formula.

YOU ARE MAGICAL so give yourself permission to act like a magical being.  Why not?  What do you have to lose by being the magical being that you are?  Let yourself visualize yourself as magical.  What would you look like?  What would you feel like?  Really let yourself play with the magic that you truly are!

You can change anything with the magical snap of your fingers if you truly BELIEVE and ALLOW the magic in.  Magic is not logical so tell that logical part of your brain to go on a vacay.  Magic can appear as an unreasonable solution, but one that happens anyway.  Magic has no explanation, it just happens…SO LET IT!  Invite magic into your life.  Let magic show up how it wants to show up in your life and let go of how you think it should look or be.  Magic cannot be limited by your feeble ideas of what you think it is.  Forget you even know what magic is…because actually, you don’t.

I perceive magic as this sparkly energy that carries blessings within it.  What those blessings are, I find to be a surprise every time.  I invite the magic, the blessings!

We all carry magic within us and if you are ready to explore the magic within you and open to your deeper magical being – the blessing that you are in this world, I am here to be your magical soul guide.  I am offering a VIP MAGIC DAY.  It’s a private one-on-one experience with me for a day.  On the day that works for both of us at a location of your choosing in and around the Austin, TX area (or you can pay to have me fly to you as well), we spend several hours (4 – 5 hrs) helping you open to the deeper magic that you are…which could look like working on your career/business, relationship, health, spirit/emotions, or intuitive gifts.  We will have an exploratory discussion before the VIP MAGIC DAY to determine what you want the focus to be about.

If a VIP MAGIC DAY sounds like the right thing for you, click here to learn more.


With so much love here for you,


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I’ve missed sharing with you lately.  Posting on my blog is one of those new found joys in 2015.  However, it is requiring that I restructure my time so that I have inspired time to write.  Some days that is more of a challenge than others.  Thanks for eagerly anticipating my next post.  My intention is to keep these posts flowing throughout the year gifting you loving guidance and wisdom about all kinds of things including a laugh or two here and there.

Do you BELIEVE life is SIMPLE?  If not, I have news for you.  Actually, it really is simple.  YOU are the one complicating it.

Now, I’m not blaming you so don’t start projecting your insecurities on me.  What I am saying is that if you have a belief that life is complicated then you will automatically and subconsciously CHOOSE complication in your life most of the time.  In fact, it is a common human habit to complicate things….alot!

Do you ever think that something seems just SO SIMPLE that it just won’t work?

I have – in the past.  I’ve changed that “life needs to be complicated to work” belief system dramatically over the past few years and my life has gotten so simple that I kinda shake my head sometimes asking if this is real.  AND IT IS!

So I am going to share with you a SIMPLE technique that is SO SIMPLE your subconscious is going to want to complicate it and tell you it won’t work.  I’m laughing right now because I can already sense the reactions.  Hee!  Hee!

In fact, it’s so simple you might even forget to do it.  Like all things, it requires a commitment to just do it.  So have some post-it notes ready to stick everywhere to remind you.

Before I share this ONE SIMPLE TECHNIQUE, just promise me you will do it for one whole day and report back to me with the results.  Doing it for one whole week would be even better!  Doing it most of the time will change your life!

Ok, are you ready?  Here goes…


Ha!  I told ya!  It’s so simple I knew you would react to it!

Now let me explain this simple technique because it is so easy that your brain is looking for the complication in it.  Again, I know this.  Been there and done that.

In order to un-complicate your life you have to CHOOSE to un-complicate your life by CHOOSING its opposite – EASY.  CHOOSE EASY in every moment and the complications will go away.

Ask yourself what CHOICES you are making right now that are unnecessarily complicating your life.

Here are some examples to make this SIMPLE technique EASIER for your complicated brain to understand.

  • Instead of arguing with your spouse/boss/child/friend, CHOOSE EASY – don’t argue – it’s not about who is right and who is wrong.  Listen instead…that is easier on your nerves and your relationships.  CHOOSE the EASIER choice.

Now, because you are in the habit of doing things in a complicated way, CHOOSING EASY may not FEEL natural to you in the beginning.  That is normal.  CHOOSE EASY ANYWAY!

  • Instead of bitching about your horrible and stressful job, ACCPET IT.

You chose it, remember.  You chose this job.  Own your complicated choice and don’t judge it.  When you resist “what is” it will persist.  That is not CHOOSING EASY.  Instead of RESISTING “what is” right now, ACCEPT IT.  That is the EASIER CHOICE.  CHOOSE EASY by accepting things as they are in the moment.  You might not like “what is” in the moment so ACCEPT that you don’t like it first.  Then AFTER you ACCEPT it, you can make a choice to CHOOSE EASY and make another choice that you do want.  In this case, CHOOSE to seek another job or start your own business.  Don’t let your mind complicate the choice.  Choose something different AFTER you have accepted what is.

Nothing can change until you ACCEPT what is first.  Believe me when I tell you this or you will continue to complicate your life unnecessarily.

There is ALWAYS a CHOICE.  

You may not want to see the choices because choice actually scares most people.  Yes, I know that sounds ridiculous, but it is true.  You feel safer believing you do not have choices.  In this way, you can remain a VICTIM of CIRCUMSTANCE and not do anything about it and just blame others and the world for your “complicated and miserable” life.  On the surface, it seems like the easier choice, but in the long run, it is the choice that destroys your life, your joy, your happiness, your peace, your ease, your flow, your abundance, your relationships, your dreams.  Is that really the EASIER CHOICE?

You have to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for ALL the CHOICES in your life.  This is a universal spiritual truth you cannot get around.  So, if this is true, CHOOSE things that make your life easier.  It’s SO SIMPLE!

Just for today, CHOOSE EASY in everything you do, think, feel, and be. 

It’s SO SIMPLE – so don’t complicate it!

Until next time, there is so much LOVE here for you!

Linda Galvan

Intuitive Soul Guide + Vibrational Alchemist + Heart Goddess

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“Holy sh*# that’s a really great class♡”

Hola Sweet Being!

That blog title is referring to a reaction a participant had in Week 1 of the Understanding Men:  How They Connect and How They Love 4 Week TeleSeries I am co-facilitating with Paul Cooper – Relationship Coach Extraordinaire.

It’s nice to receive validation that what I am putting out there in collaboration with other great energetic coaches and practitioners is really touching lives and making a difference.

Commercial:  If you missed the announcement about this series, it is probably because you are not on my elist….gasp!  If you look in the above menu you will notice a tab that says “FREE ANGELIC LOVE ACTIVATION AUDIO.”  Click on it, sign up for my newsletter and receive a FREE and very potent activation I recently created as my gift to you for joining.  That way you won’t miss anymore amazing and life-changing experiences I may be offering in the future.

Now back to our previously scheduled topic:  We are moving into WEEK 3 – Understanding Attachment and Addiction in Men which is a HUGE topic that I would not want anyone to miss.

If you are a woman, how many times have you dealt with a man who had addiction and/or commitment/attachment issues?  Do you know how to consciously handle a man like that?  If you are a man, how deeply do you truly understand your addictions and attachment issues and where they come from and how to transcend them?  Do you know how to ask your woman to consciously support you?

If you are not sure of the answers and you want to know, then I invite you to this LIVE call on Thursday, March 5th at 7pm Central.

So here is what I am going to do.  You can JOIN this LIVE call by REGISTERING HERE.  Once you register, I will personally send you the call details.  And here is the BONUS!  You can invite a friend on the call for FREE if you ACT NOW and JOIN!

What’s so great about this tele series, you ask?  Well, let me tell you.  What we are covering on these calls I have NEVER heard discussed or explored anywhere in the relationship world.  We are opening doors of consciousness that have rarely been opened around men, the masculine and the feminine dynamic.  Several female and male participants have commented as to how these potent calls have created HUGE AH-HA moments for them around their current and past relationships.  These powerful energetic discussions and transmissions between Paul and I literally shift your consciousness and open you to higher states of awareness around yourself and the masculine.  Direct energetic healing occurs right on the call!

And the best thing is, your relationships with men (if you are a woman) begin to change and become more conscious.  If you are a man, your understanding of yourself deepens as does your understanding of women in relationship to you.

This series isn’t just for women.  In fact, there is so much healing and heart-support here for men.  A male participate shared with me that he felt so validated as a man after participating in the last two calls and that he did not realize the extent to which women truly do not understand men’s emotional depth and intuitive nature.  He also felt, during the calls, that how he is, isn’t wrong.

I had another female participant email me and share:

“wow…. how I have been shutting down feelings in my relationship to not feel my pain.. while he is tired of seeing me have emotional feelings…. the dad stuff makes sense as well. I am so grateful to know how to be and what to look for moving forward in the male relationships now… and this way we can put words as to what is happening… “

If this topic resonates strongly for you, JOIN US this Thursday!  The call will be recorded and a replay sent to you if you miss it or can’t make the date and time.

Register for this ONE call this Thursday and if you want the whole series, I will credit you the $50 you paid for this week’s participation.  How can it get any better than that?

I leave you with the answer Paul Cooper gave to a question a female participant emailed us after our Week 2 call.  I sense this is a common theme for many women when it comes to their experiences with men.

Comment and Question:

Good Morning Linda and Paul,

I just listened to last night’s recording. And as you said, it was very powerful. I found myself jotting ah has throughout the call.

One issue emerged that I am wrestling with a bit, which centers around fear and protection. I realize that my own Daddy issues in part center around fear of his temper/mood – and managing that for my family (I was the oldest of a large family), a role I accepted. I either fought back or took off. In my last serious relationship, which was painful due to the slow emergence of many lies, I realize that I was often confronted with alarming, scary anger from the man – he showed this anger privately and publically to others. So… I have become over protective of myself – I realized that I am overgeneralizing that men are angry and mean and create dangerous situations. That being said, what is a path when you are confronted with explosive anger? Feeling that feeling and staying safe seems a daunting task.

In closing my questions center on trust and safety – exactly what was raised during the call. Yet, there seems to be a paradox created in order to take good care of oneself.

So… any insight is welcome.”

Answer from Paul:

“Hi R,

Regarding the scary anger that
tends to emerge from men, it’s
important to distinguish between
what you’re doing physically and
what you’re doing energetically.

In this case what’s most important
is your energetic stance, not your
physical one. If the situation feels
dangerous, go to another room or
do whatever you need to do to keep
yourself safe.

Pay close attention to how you’re
holding yourself energetically though.
You want to remain as open as possible
energetically. Feel all of your emotions
that are coming up in response to his
anger. Then feel into his anger while
doing your best to remain open and
present with yourself.

It shouldn’t take long for his behavior
toward you to start to change. You’ll
also notice that you feel way more
open and relaxed in the other areas
of your life once you begin practicing

I hope you find this helpful.


I lovingly invite you to JOIN US this Thursday, March 5th at 7pm Central for Understanding Men:  How They Connect and How They Love – Attachment and Addiction.

Receive the gifts and blessings awaiting you on this LIVE call Thursday.  See you there! Reminder that you can invite a friend for FREE after you REGISTER!

With deepest love and abounding GRACE,

Linda Galvan

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